Notes from Susan: America’s Youngest Hidden Helpers

Notes from Susan: America’s Youngest Hidden Helpers

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America’s Youngest Hidden Helpers

By Susan MacLaury

On November 10th, I watched a very moving event broadcast from the White House. It featured First Lady, Dr. Jill Biden, Senator Elizabeth Dole, Secretary of Veterans Affairs Denis McDonough, and Secretary of Defense Lloyd Austin in honoring America’s Hidden Helpers.

Senator Dole, representing the Elizabeth Dole Foundation, joined the White House’s Joining Forces, the Wounded Warrior Project and the Hidden Helpers Coalition as they pledged support to provide a range of services for children and young adults in military families who are caring for wounded, ill or critically injured warriors – suffering from both visible and invisible injuries – at home.

This year Shine Global was honored to work with Sesame Workshop to produce a short documentary for their HBO Max series, “Through Our Eyes.” We chose to focus on military children of injured parents. At the time, there were no studies that quantified the number of children living with disabled veterans, but the Hidden Helpers coalition just released their study at this White House event revealing this is a population of 2.3 million. Our short documentary, “Homefront,” tells the story of three of them: the Rodriguez family in Connecticut, the Richard Family in Virginia, and the Worleys in Georgia.

The First Lady asked Gabby Rodriguez, one of three children profiled in “Homefront” – to introduce her at the White House event. A remarkably poised and articulate child, Gabby breaks your heart with her simple candor about what it is like to have a father who has forgotten how to speak, how to read, or how to care for himself, and whose PTSD creates  emotional stress within the family.

Introduced by Secretary Austin, Gabby spoke eloquently about her father’s struggle, her mother’s unceasing efforts to care for him, and how she and her younger sister, Ava, try to help. I doubt there was a dry eye in the house by the time she thanked Dr. Biden for her support for military families and introduced her.

I know that there wasn’t a dry eye in our house. As a child, my father had been killed in the Korean War and my life had, of course, been hugely affected. Until we embarked on “Homefront,” however, I never had a real appreciation of the post-war challenges faced by soldiers with serious injuries, those who wouldn’t have survived Korea or Vietnam but, with medical advances, often do today. Their courage in trying to recover their lives and care for their families is something for us all to celebrate and support.

I’m proud that our film Homefront is playing a small part in bringing attention and support to these children and their families.  As Gabby said at the event, “I want every other caregiver kid out there to know that there are millions of us. You are not alone.” And I want Gabby and all the other kids to know that Shine Global is among the millions of Americans grateful for their parents’ service to us and who are pledging to support them.

Dr. Susan MacLaury, PhD, LSW is the co-founder and Executive Director of the non-profit media company Shine Global which gives voice to underserved children and their families by telling their stories of resilience to raise awareness, promote action, and inspire change.  She executive produced the Academy Award® Winning documentary Inocente, the Emmy Award®-winning, Academy Award®-nominated War/Dance, as well as The Harvest (La Cosecha), 1 Way Up in 3D, The Eagle Huntress, Through Our Eyes: Homefront, and Liyana. She is also the producer of the documentary films The Wrong Light and Virtually Free and co-producer of Tre Maison Dasan. Susan is dually degreed in social work administration and health education and was associate professor of health education at Kean University from 1994 through 2013.

Shine Global is an award-winning non-profit media company that gives voice to children and their families by sharing their stories of resilience to raise awareness, promote action, and inspire change. We produce inspiring films and compelling content about at-risk children. Through tailored distribution and outreach, we connect with our audiences in communities, classrooms, museums, and on capitol hill as part of a powerful engagement campaign to encourage social change.

 

 

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Notes from Susan: America’s Youngest Hidden Helpers

Gabby Rodriguez, Featured in our film Homefront, Speaks at White House

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Gabby Rodriguez, Featured in our film Homefront, Speaks at White House

Joining Forces and Hidden Helpers Coalition Pledge Support to Military and Veteran Children in Caregiving Families

 

November 11, 2021 — Gabby Rodriguez, age 9 and one of the stars of our film Homefront, spoke at the White House yesterday about her experience as a military caregiver. She was part of an event with the White House’s Joining Forces Initiative, Elizabeth Dole Foundation, Wounded Warrior Project (WWP), the Hidden Helpers Coalition, and military families celebrating military and veteran caregiver children and youth.

The event also marked the release of a first-of-its-kind study detailing the impacts of military caregiving in children and youth. The study finds that 2.3 million children in the United States are living with a disabled veteran – the first evidence based quantification of these “Hidden Helpers.”

Gabby spoke about what it is like growing up after her father, veteran Jorge, was hit with an IED in Iraq and suffered hearing loss, a traumatic brain injury, and PTSD.

“I would go to the playground and ask other kids, ‘Was your dad in the military? Does he have a booboo on his brain?’ It was three long years [later] when I was at a veteran family retreat for military kids that I finally made my first friend that said, ‘Yes,’ to both of those questions. It was a huge moment for me,” Gabby said, standing alongside her 6-year-old sister Ava.

“I want every other caregiver kid out there to know that there are millions of us. You are not alone,” Gabby added.

One of the primary findings of the study is that military caregivers endure “fears of stigma and being misunderstood by friends, family, and the larger community that can engender feelings of isolation for children and caregivers.” Military caregiver children are also more likely to experience trouble learning in school and to develop health problems such as stress and fatigue. The study also found children want more support to navigate their roles as “hidden helpers” and that their needs “can get lost in their family’s response to the needs of the care recipient.”

Shine Global’s film Homefront illustrates the impact of military service on the entire family by sharing the stories of three different families. Gabby, Terry, and Luther all have parents who were injured while serving, and each family has found a way to heal the wounds of war. Homefront shows how Gabby (9), a fierce animal lover with a stock of chickens, rabbits, bees, and dogs, loves her family and faces her fears about her Dad’s traumatic brain injury and PTSD via equine therapy. Terry (10), an enthusiastic boy and his parents, Taniki and Brandon, share their experiences and mental health struggles as they work to heal and help each other cope with depression and PTSD through honest conversation and embracing joy. Luther (9) is a charismatic boy who wants to be “like my dad when I grow up.” His father, Joe, a Navy veteran who lost his leg in an IED explosion, struggles through chronic pain to put family first.

“We made this film to bring attention and support to the children and families of veterans as well as foster an open dialogue around mental health, trauma, and recovery,” director Kristi Jacobson and producers Alexandra Blaney and Netsanet Negussie shared. “Through the eyes and voices of three remarkable and inspiring children – Gabby,Terry, and Luther – we can experience the unique struggles that they and their veteran parents experience and see how military service impacts the family unit.”

The Hidden Helpers study will also be used to provide effective support to caregivers of all ages. The event yesterday marked the first step in that work with the announcement of nearly 40 public and private sector commitments for new and expanded resources, programs, and financial pledges in support of military-connected caregiver children and youth.

Homefront is part of Sesame Workshop’s “Through Our Eyes” documentary series now streaming on HBOMax

You can read and download the full report “Hidden Helpers at the Frontlines of Caregiving: Supporting the Healthy Development of Children from Military and Veteran Caregiving Homes” from Mathematica.   

You can also watch a recording of the White House event here:

 

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About Shine Global

Shine Global is a non-profit media company that gives voice to children and their families by telling their stories of resilience to raise awareness, promote action, and inspire change. We produce inspiring films and compelling content about underserved children. Through tailored distribution and outreach, we connect with our audiences in communities, classrooms, museums, and on Capitol Hill as part of a powerful engagement campaign to encourage social change. Since our founding in 2005, Shine Global films have won more than 100 major awards, including an Academy Award® for Best Documentary Short Subject for Inocente and an Academy Award®-nomination and two Emmys® for War/Dance. Recent films include the documentary-animation hybrid Liyana, the hit documentary The Eagle Huntress, and Tre Maison Dasan which broadcast on PBS’s Independent Lens, and Virtually Free which won the SIMA Jury Award for Impact.